Oct 26 2008
Am I a Nyonya?
One of our readers had this to say:
Despite the description above (in our introduction section), I’m still not sure of ‘how would one know if one is a Peranakan’? My grandmother is born in Penang. I remember a photo of her wearing a ‘puah t’ng teh’. And all my life, home-cooked food - especially during Chinese New Year - has always been Nyonya. So I always wonder if my roots is Nyonya?”
This is really a fair and understandable comment. My grandmother also practised all the customs associated with what we would consider as “nyonya culture”. There was even “asap kemenyan” on Thursdays (malam Jumaat, what the Malays considered holy night). Grandmother was also very particular about feast days and festivals. At the same time, she was also a committed Buddhist and proud of “King and Country” (the United Kingdom!) She was a committee member of the Women’s Institute and there is a photograph of her next to Lady Templar. But she loved her P. Ramlee movies and Teochew opera.
In short, what is a Peranakan? To my mind, it is the fascinating adaptability to different cultures. If we have a defining feature it is our culture of openness. We are products of “inter-cultural” interactions. Ours is the culture of the chameleon and not the peacock. So, now that the world is finally coming round to seeing the world through a multicultural lens, Peranakans have very little trouble adapting.
Does this make things clearer? Would love to know what others think.
Posted by Neil Khor